Graduation Should Celebrate Every Student—Not Just the Popular Ones

Graduation Should Celebrate Every Student—Not Just the Popular Ones

June marks not only the end of the school year, but also graduation season. It’s a busy month filled with elementary and high school graduation ceremonies, proms and other activities aimed at helping students celebrate the completion of an important milestone in their educational journey. 

Like many parents and caregivers of graduating students, I sat through my share of speeches at awards day, graduation day and prom. Speeches from students, parents and teachers reflecting on the students’ time at the school, touching on highlights, reminiscing about the past and pontificating about the future.

As I sat and listened, something became apparently clear. The experience that many of the speakers talked about was the experience of a select group of students. The “in” crowd and jocks.

The stories of the collective journey were not stories of events or activities that included all students.

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Burning Bridges or Building Change? Why Effective Advocacy Takes Time

Burning Bridges or Building Change? Why Effective Advocacy Takes Time

Many of us get into advocacy because of necessity, not choice. Very few of us have the option of dipping our toe into the advocacy journey. Rather, we’re forced to jump fully in to advocate for ourselves or a loved one.

While urgency is often the force behind advocacy, it’s important to remember that advocacy is a long-term game, not about short-term wins.

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Blame is Easy. Supporting Moms is Harder (and More Important)

Blame is Easy. Supporting Moms is Harder (and More Important)

When I was pregnant, I followed all the rules. I didn’t eat soft cheeses, sushi, luncheon meat, limited my caffeine intake, and more. 

My first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage – which of course I blamed myself for. I doubled down on following the rules for subsequent pregnancies, wanting to do everything “right.” The result: two babies and one more miscarriage.

Even when you follow the rules, the outcomes can be different from your expectations.

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